Sunday, January 22, 2006

UNKNOWN PATH.....

Isn’t it strange when two strangers become the best of friends but isn’t it really sad when the best of friends become two strangers



What is the answer?



...[Silence]...



what is the question?




Huh?


*sighs*



BREAK THE ICE ….. no more, in between the lines …
(Screaming Silently)





I miss u dadi , I wish you would have not left me that soon , life would have been a lot different from today and much easier . I know you would have lend a hand on my behalf like u first did for me , we were late, but , now I don’t want to make the same mistake …



I love u n I miss u badly ………..

59 comments:

Anonymous said...

I think many ppl can relate to this in various degrees...at least in my case, it seems to happen quite often that in different situations i become very good friends with ppl that i wasnt even interested in knowing before...but at some point, ppl and circumstances change, and no matter how much i dont want it to happen, the friendship seems to fade away, and for no good reason...and by the time i realize it, and try to fix it, its no use, cuz it's just not the same as it used to be...

i found the tribute to ur dadi especially interesting cuz i never even got to meet either of my grandfathers, who both died before i was born...and i'm always told by ppl abt how i hav so many things in common with them, and so many of the same kinds of habits...i'm always left wondering what it might hav been like to hav them around, if even for a lil while...

meshwork said...

oh bina.. that is out of this world... its beautiful...yar dil ki baat kardi..bina hum donon ki kahani eh hi hay...
dadi to nahi hay.. lekin tumhay upar say dekh to rahee hay ..tumharay liayay dua to kar hi rahee hoingi..tum fikr na karo bina..aur aap jo jantay hay aap par ishara hay ,.,,kuch karo ..is saypehlay dair hojayaya..
take the step...make her dreams come true.. please...

Sana Umer said...

bina no one can ever take the place of dadi jaan.. laikin mairi bachi auroon ki batoon pay bhi kaan dhur dia karo is say pehlay kay wo bhi chalay jain aur aap unhain bhi tribute paish kar ri hoon:/

Mr. Khurram said...

Dadi ---> Candy shop.
Dadi ---> Old Stories.
Dadi ---> Nice hair Massage.
Dadi ---> $$$ without tellin' Mom.
Dadi ---> 1000 kisses.
Dadi ---> NO D-pression Ever. Smiles only.

This is what I found in my Dadi.

May God bless your Dadi.

benz said...

wajahat a.k.a waji :-
heh yeah in ither words we say na k balck cloud was on our top:P jaokes apart yes , there are times inour loves when we are jsut helpless , no matter how hard we try , everythign jsut seems to get away like water falling from the hand...
i gues severy realtionship needs space n time to express itself.. but time is a betrayed lover it waits for none.... jsut little scared of tht ... all is good :)
dunt worry inshallah ur grandchildren will ahev the oppurtunity to have a grandfather like u :) cheers !!!!!!

mehwish :-
awwwwwwwww!!!
thanks , ihope her dream comes true...
i can take it no more... i jsut cant hold my self anylonger.. it seems like once againnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnn.... can hold no more............

aks...:- han u r right .. shahayd aik aur phir ... pata nahi ...

Saapphire :-
that was a beautiful way of expressing a true meaning of friendship.... but when words means nothing to some one and to the other everything .. thee the misinterpreting goes wrong....
words are the supporting elements... they are there to be measured wth the silence...

Boxing champ:_ LOL
my dadi was my best friend !! i had gr8 times with her... i wasnt close to my mother ... my dadi was my other me .... ;) she knew me this well ...
i llove her.... there are few steps tht u cant take n than the pople who u count alot can lead u there... i jsut lost one great person in my life .. n tht hurts n it really does....
chers !

ReJeCtEd by GoD EmBrAcEd By The DeVil !!!!! said...
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ReJeCtEd by GoD EmBrAcEd By The DeVil !!!!! said...

allah tumhari dadi ko Janat mein jaga day. Waisay meray khiyal say do log kabhi bhi stranger nahi ho saktay hein :)especially jab woh dost reh chukay hoon.

benz said...

Umer:-
it can be possible...
DADi ka Ameen ... i hope she rest in peace...

coco jumbo said...

I can relate this to myself, it was a dark year 730 days ago and a dark april 365 days ago. May their soul rest in heaven, ameen

mahnoor said...

*hugs*

you and your dadi will never be strangers. true, it's possible. i've definitely seen it happen. but just the fact that you have history and memories with a person completely eliminates the possibility of them becoming true strangers. although, the storyline of "eternal sunshine of the spotless mind" stands as an exception :)

Anonymous said...

U only miss your dadi for selfish reasons

Mr. Khurram said...

You 're right it hurts so bad when someone so special is Lost 'n' we can't find them more in our Lives, BUT it's our Faith that we 'll meet them again in After-life. So no worries. *smiles*

God bless you....

Nabeel said...

well if such a thing happens .. they were not best of friends .. they were just friends .. because best friends are indeed best and are with you no matter what .. and they might not be with you like you two together but they never become strangers ..

Anonymous said...

i share the same feelings...so disturbed and unuttered...distinct and miles apart...have no one to complain..but when i look behind my shoulder, i see the past..the past which can never be changed..the love remains all alone and guilty!

benz said...
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benz said...

aqsa :-
we are sailing in the same boats honey.. but dunt worry .. i m there for u whenever u need me.. miles cant apart us now.... she is gone but deep in out hearts she will alywas remain.... accept the reaily n lets move ahead together.... , shoulder to shoulder , head to hear....
muah * HUGS* sis...

Anonymous said...

well, if seeking guidance from the experience of others is selfish, then i guess we're all selfish...

benz said...

Omair:-
i know such feelings can not be expressed in words .... thts y i never mentioned anythign abt my dadi.... :(... she passed away 6 months ago... she is indeed a gr8 loss for our family... yes , may their soul rest in peace...

Mano:-
*hugs*
thansk my sweety ..i really needed it ;)
ewll... it still remaisns a mystery unsolved... :)

Anonymous:-
ppl who know me knows how deep my realtion was with her... i dutn need to clearify .. or do i ?


Boxing Champ: the loss of someone dear leaves a great impac in our lives n especially if they are very unexpected ones...
but than yet yo cant stop living.... life still keeps going ....

Nabeel:-
i salute u sir for tht... i agree with u without any doubt....

meshwork said...

I guess nabeel said it best...
and anonymous..one word for you...."LOSER"

Sam!! said...

Ur dadi is not physically with u but her prayers n love is always there with u. May Allah bless her soul, try to come upto her expectations. Yeah u r right they all r at much better place so cheer up, this world is temporary place we all have to leave it one day.

Oh! by the way wat she have to do with 'HOORAIN'? (u wrote at my blog na they all r surrounded by hoorain n must b happy) :) :)

Thnx for ur words u left at my blog.

takecare,
samrina

benz said...

Mehwish :- we are not here to abuse anyone or criticize.. so dunt do it :)

Samrina:- i will let u know abt it ..
no worries girl :) its my pleasure
*hugs*

Anonymous said...

u are write mehwish baji..someone is surely being a loser around here..a person confused and with no guts :@

Anonymous said...

rite*

benz said...

aqsa:- here u go again /,,,, lol... my blog is again gonan turn into a battle ground ... lol ...

Anonymous said...

baji: that is wat the anony wants it to become..by posting his dumb comments..haina..

Viks said...

I never really got to spend a lot of time with any of my grandparents. But I had some good times with 'em. Though my Dadi passed away before I was even born.

But yeah, I know a few 'best of friends' who are stranger to me now. There's sadness and oddity when you face 'em again. It's a dare itself to talk to 'em!

-Vicky

Mr. Khurram said...

Yeh! Life doesn't stop, It keeps goin'. but to where? It's just takin' us to it's end, to the people who has left before us, to After-Life. So, no worries for this littl life. *smiles*

God bless you....

benz said...

Aqsa:-
We cant help if some is tryint oo run away from the reality .. they must havve their own reasons... time will tell.....
u rock girlie;) hugs

Viks:-
aww.... sad to hear tht ... but dunt owrry .... watever happens , happens for something good.... so no worries.... but i msut say i was lucky enough to spend few yrs of my lie with her.. they were precious n priceless.....
yes... it si indeed true abt friends.... its hard to face them once when they become strangers.... // its aa sad demise...

Booxing champ:-
BC the thing is k when u are very close to someone n they leave u in the middle of soemthing all of a sudden n when u have no idea where to go... there is the end for a new beginning.... wehther it be for friends becoming strangers or loss of a family.... the dot n space remains there....

benz said...

Aqsa :- we cant help if some one is trying to *



sorry my typing............. grrrrrrrrrrrrr

Nabeel said...

ohhh i didn't know you were referring to your dadi (grandmother) .. when I read dadi the first time I just thought that's what you called your best friend ..

benz said...
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benz said...

Nabeel:-
lol..... no no ... dadi is my grand mother.. and she was indeed my best friend.. but ... the quote and the post is not fro my dadi its for someone else... dadi was the one who apprached on my behalf .. we were very late than ... but now... i dutn want to reapt the same mistake... btu she is no longer with me..
I want him to break the ice... no more in between the lines...

i guess i have expressed my post in a wrong way ...

Anonymous said...

lol..hahaha :P

Saad said...
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Saad said...

this is so true and touchy

i wanted my grandfather to c my uni mag of which i was the editor in cheif...it was all my effort i wanted him to c it n he passed away just a month before its launching...i wanted him to c me working, earning my own living and c me graduating but i got so late! n now this doznt mean anything to me

i guess life is all full of this..whteva u want from it...u dont get it

way to go bina!..simple words with emotions in em..make a gem of writing

Reza said...

Thanks for deleteing me from your blogroll. See you. Deleteing you from mine.

coco jumbo said...

hello? Is anybody in there???

benz said...

Saad & Destruction :-
yeah , i guess thts wat called fate....

Omair:-
yessssss, i m here ...... :)

meshwork said...

bina..
mar jaana us ki side lay lay kar tum ...
i said it again ..im gonna say it again....
"HE IS A LOSER..BECAUSE HE IS PLAYING WITH YOUR FEELINGS...AND I AM YOUR FRIEND AND I CANT SE YOU WALK THE PATH OF THORNS HE LAID DOWN FOR YOU..."
you dont like wht i have to say ..have only one thing to say that...truth does always hurt....
reality check...thats wht you need now...
bina dont do this toyourself...please...Im outta this and now I give you my hand ... take it and emerge from this ordeal....
and leave it to Allah.. jub hona hoga ..jis say hona hoga ..hojayega...jo tumhari behtaru hogee wohi hoga....
TRUST HIM,..and dont sulk .....

benz said...

Mehwish :-
well, u know n everyone knows i have got a drastic change coz watever happened in the last few months... dutn worry.. i m reborn now...:) thanks for the advice n i know no matter what u will always be there standing besife me ....
After dadi jaan's death and with a passage of time i have realised that we should try to look things with people's [ersepective.... y dutn we walk int heir shoes just for a change .. u know.. we might see things with different angle... n it maight bring a smile on our face saying oh! look its so differnt the way i perceived ... see...
As far as someone being a LOSER is concerned! dutn say it ... they have their own reasons....i m not taking anyones side but , its the fact.... i knwo its not tht easy to say but.... lets c.. if one wants to say it . things were different 3 yrs ago n now they are different again....
dunt worry girle.. i mnot worries....
love yeah n thanks for the concerned *Hugs*
smileeeeeeeeeeeeeee... u r on candid camera :P
bu hahahaha

benz said...

I HATE MY TYPING ************




grrrrrrrrrrrrrrr.........
:)

benz said...

HeY MeHwIsH;_

i am a new person now... lol... full of life.... once again >.... ;)

meshwork said...

BINA...WANNA STRANGLE YOU RIGHT NOW..
BUT I CANT ..THSI WORLD IS A NASTY PLACE AND I CANT LIVE WITHOUT YA..SO DROPPING THAT IDEA...
JO TUM KARNA CHAHTY HO KARO..LEKIN I'LL BE RIGHT BESIDE YOU...FOREVER
LOVE YOU LOADS...MUAAAAAAAAH

Anonymous said...

aap dodnoon ki piar bhari baatein kab khatam hoon gi :P how sweeeeeet :P

benz said...

AQSA"_lolz... dunt tell me u jealous of my nmehwoish pyar ... hahahahahaah
i luv u the same ... smoooooooooooch
luv ya laods.. sweety pie..sugary pie... :P

Anonymous said...

as if u are truthifying :P

benz said...

Aqsa...
Lol... ofcourrse hunny bunny...
;)

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